Not in the Mood for Relationships? Tips for Finding a Hookup on a Chat Line
After my last boyfriend, I decided it was time to cool the relationship thing for awhile. Even so, a girl does have needs. A friend who is also not in the mood for anything long-term provided me with some good numbers to call for phonesex and to chat with guys who also want something casual and with no strings. I decided to give it a try.
They say practice makes perfect, and it did take a little time for me to come up with a plan that worked for me. If you are thinking of spending a little time finding a Mr. Right Now instead of looking for Mr. Right, here are some tips that I think will help.
- Create an alias. The last thing you want to do is use your real name on a phone chat line. Even using your real first name at first is not a smart move. While Mobile AL has the best phone sex girls and guys you could ever ask for, there is the occasional creep. Using an alias allows you to decide how much or how little you want to reveal after the two of you decide whether to keep it on the phone or go for the real thing.
- Vague information only. Never provide details about the part of town you live in or what type of work you do unless you can keep it vague. It’s fine to mention that you live somewhere on the east side since there are all sorts of neighborhoods there. Don’t provide details about the wonderful view of the Bay that you have out your bedroom window or say much about your work if only a few firms in town provide those services. Save all that for later if you decide that hooking up once a week or so is something you want to do.
- If it feels wrong, cut the conversation off. One of my first hot and heavy conversations started out okay but it took a turn into things that are outside my comfort zone. A little kink is fine, but I do have my limits. Anyway, I ignored my instincts and moved ahead. He had fun, but I wasn’t all that satisfied. These days, if anything seems a little too much or I feel creeped out, I break off the communication immediately.
Having phone sex and maybe advancing to a full-fledged hookup is great when you don’t want the complexity of a relationship, Play it smart and you can have your fun and still keep the situation under control.