Some people are naturally quiet in the bedroom, which is perfectly fine. We all have our own mannerisms, and, honestly, we aren’t exactly thinking about our vocals when we’re caught up in the passion of the moment. Phone sex is a bit different, though, and we have to think about how our performance and pleasure can be conveyed to our partners in the heat of the moment. The easiest way to convey our satisfaction and ecstasy is to make some noise!
When you’re going to town on yourself and your partner is describing the sexy things that they want to do to you, don’t be shy with your voice! Moaning from pleasure is sexy. The sounds of you enjoying the act will turn them on and encourage them to keep doing what they’re doing so you can both reach that peak orgasm!
This doesn’t mean you should fake it, though. Just let your guard down and allow the sound to escape your lips without holding back. It shouldn’t feel forced, it should feel like a type of release as you let pleasure take control.
Make sure you’re alone so no one walks in to check out the noises. If you have never been the noisy type, then any housemates or roommates are likely to check out unusual noises to make sure you’re okay. When you’re first trying out the audible sounds of ecstasy, maybe make sure your roomies are out of the house for a while, first, until you discover how loud your passion can be.
If you are not into moaning, then heavy breathing and panting are sexy, too, just don’t be too close to the microphone. You don’t want to sound like you’re in a windstorm on your partner’s end, but you want them to hear that you’re enjoying what you’re doing together.
To make things easier, use speakerphone or headphones to your advantage so you can make use of both hands. This also enables you to hit spots that you might not be able to reach with one hand. Just be cognizant of the mouthpiece location if you’re using wired headphones with a mic.
Letting your guard down and getting into the intimacy and erotic pleasure of phone sex makes it so much better than being tense and silent. Sit back, relax, and let yourself make some noise while your partner listens to your wordless passion and enjoyment.