Whether you’re giving head as foreplay or for the main act, it’s all about making your man want more. To do that, it has to be a total turn on for both of you.
The best way to do that is by using your hands. Try teasing him with the tip of his penis or even going up and down his shaft.
2. Get him in the shower
Guys are usually very deprived when it comes to touch, so shower sex feels amazing for them. When he enters the bathroom, press your body up against the wall so you’re facing him. As soon as he starts washing, gently open your mouth and take his dick into it. The friction of your lips against his shaft, plus the feeling of the water spraying on your nipples, is sure to send him into oral sex overdrive.
Don’t forget to use your hands while you’re giving head, either! The top part of his penis is the most sensitive, so it’ll feel heavenly when you use your lips to gently grab and massage it. The Kama Sutra actually devoted an entire chapter to oral sex, so this is something that’s been around for quite some time.
3. Don’t forget the hand job
Hand jobs aren’t just about his penis—there are lots of other sexy spots on his body that deserve your attention. For instance, his testicles are a very sensitive spot that can give him extra pleasure when you play with them.
Another spot to be sure not to forget is his anus, which can also get him really turned on when you touch it. You can stroke it gently with your fingers, or even use a sex toy to give him extra stimulation.
One more trick is to rotate your hands as you slide them up and down his shaft. This can add a lot of excitement to your foreplay and accelerate the pace at which you give him head. Just be careful not to rush things too much or you’ll lose his interest and ruin the horny zen he’s in. Moreover, rotating your hands can help minimize friction and reduce the risk of accidental STI transmission.
4. Keep it slow
Giving head is a huge turn-on for most guys. It’s a chance to lick the head of his penis, and it happens best once you reach that post-language space of sex where words fall away and animal sounds and groans take over.
Many women start too fast when they give head, with little or no build-up or teasing. This is a mistake. Gently teasing and building sexual tension so that your man is practically begging you to blow him is a key step in taking his head game from good to great.
There are a lot of things that you can do to increase the pleasure while giving him head, including whispering some “trigger” word or phrase in his ear, touching and gently massaging specific parts of his body, and looking at him in a particular way. The more you do to make it all about him, the more he will enjoy your hand job.