Whether you’re a couple or single, going for a gay men threesome can be a great way to spice up your sex life. But it’s important to know how to do it right so that it’s a safe, enjoyable experience.
Having an open relationship isn’t easy. But it’s worth it for many gay men who want to explore their sexuality without sacrificing their relationships.
Communication is key
Whether you’re a longtime gay man looking for a little variety in your life or an avid threesome lover who’s a fan of this sexually adventurous activity, there are certain dos and don’ts that need to be followed. Here are a few tips to make your next threesome successful:
The first step is to talk openly about your motivations and desires for having a threesome. Discussing your needs and expectations will help you set up the roles, make after plans and ensure a safe and enjoyable experience.
Set up the roles
If you want to have sex with another person, it’s important to set up the roles before you go out. This can help ensure that everything goes smoothly and that the experience is enjoyable for all involved.
It’s also a good idea to discuss your boundaries before you get started so that you can avoid any surprises and regrets later on. This will make things a lot easier and allow you to focus on having fun.
Whether you are part of a couple or just three single guys, it’s important to talk about your personal and sexual boundaries. This will help you avoid any unexpected surprises during the menage a trois, which can lead to unnecessary tension and stress between you.
You’ll also need to talk about what kind of sex you’re looking for and where it will take place. You’ll also need to talk about how to address jealousy during the threesome if one of you feels that something is going wrong between you.
Make after plans
Having a gay men threesome is one of the most enjoyable experiences you can have together. However, it’s also very important to plan ahead and make sure everyone’s on board with the idea.
The first thing to do is discuss the possibility of a threesome with your partner. Talk about what would get you and your partner hot and what you like to do when having sex.
Once you have an agreement that you’d like to bring someone in for a threesome, you need to set some boundaries that will minimize any potential threats the third person may pose to your relationship. This will be difficult to do, but it’s worth doing if you want to have this kind of experience with your loved one.
You should also have a plan for how you will all stay together in case one of you needs to leave the sex session for any reason. This is also very important to discuss with your threesome buddy as you don’t want them to feel uncomfortable.
Discuss sexual health
Sexual health is an important aspect of a person’s overall health and well-being. It involves physical, emotional, mental, and social dimensions and is based on positive and respectful approaches to sexuality, relationships and reproduction that are free of coercion, discrimination and violence.
Good sexual health promotes a sense of self-esteem, personal attractiveness and competence, freedom from sexual dysfunction, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexual assault/coercion and affirms the possibility of fulfilling sexual relations. It also includes the ability to understand and weigh the benefits, risks, responsibilities and outcomes of sexual behavior and abstinence when appropriate.
It is essential to talk about sex with a doctor, parent or adult you trust before trying any new sexual behaviors. Even if you have a lot of sexual experience, it is important to make sure that you and your partner discuss any concerns and questions before going out with another person.