Phone sex is glorious and finding the right partner on a chatline makes it feel like your relationship was meant to be. Getting into the right mindset to find your next flirty partner is half the fun and it’s important to help you have the best experience possible! There are a few reasons why you should get dressed up before your flirty phone fun time, and a few things to remember when you do dress up. It’s not all bowties and thongs, either!
If you’ve ever heard the popular quote, “Dress for the job you want,” then getting dressed for your date is the same this. Dressing up for the type of date you want puts you in the right mindset for intimacy. Dressing up doesn’t necessarily mean you need to wear a tux or a ballgown, either. If you want intimacy and sex, then wear something that makes you feel sexy, even if it’s just underwear!
When you dress in something sexy or provocative, it also becomes easier to describe what you’re wearing so you don’t have to make up or imagine details. It’s important to prepare for your call by creating your character, and if you’re already wearing something incredibly sexy, then that’s one less thing that you have to think of on the spot. If you don’t have a great imagination when it comes to creating a sexual image, this will also be a huge help, since you can just look in the mirror!
When you get dressed up, there are a few basic things to keep in mind. The first is to wear loose-fitting or stretchy clothes. You want freedom of movement, or at least something that easy to remove or slide your hands inside of. Remember, the ultimate goal is sexual gratification, and you’ll have a harder time with the gratification part if you can’t move your hand very well.
Wear something sexy. Even if it’s not traditionally sexy like a banana hammock or lingerie set, wear something that makes you feel sexy. This will get you in a more sexual mood and you’ll be more flirtatious and fun without even realizing it! When you feel sexy, you act sexier, so why not give yourself that added advantage in the conversation?
Dress like you’re expecting to have sex. When women go on a date and they end up in their dates bed, you can always tell if she was expecting to get some action based on your underwear. If her underwear and bra match, then the sex was not your idea, she just let you think it was. Wear matching clothes, or even silk, leather, or lace. Whatever screams “I’m going to have sex tonight” when you look at yourself in the mirror. It will make you feel a hundred times more confident and sexier, so your call will be that much smoother.
When you have a date, you dress to impress. A phone date should be no different. It will tricker your brain into making you feel like you’re more confident than you are, and you’ll turn into the sexy stud that was hiding inside you all along! Set yourself up for success! Why would you not give yourself every tool possible to ensure you have the best date with a sexy woman?