A large part of phone sex comes from your imagination, though many people do bring some of their real-life experiences into the mix. Making phone sex more realistic can be done in a multitude of ways, including paying attention to your environment, what you’re wearing, how you are sitting and/or laying, and a wide range of other ways, too. The words and descriptors that people use in their chats can also have an impact on the quality of the phone sex you are partaking in. Using these tips, add to the realism of your experiences. On this website, you also get the top tools, allowing you to find your ideal phone sex chat partners and fulfill your fantasies.
Think About What You Want In Advance
Thinking about what you want in advance is an important part of the process, allowing you to come up with more realistic scenarios and experiences. While some people are into taboo types of roleplay and other things that may not come up in sex in the real world, those who are looking for more realistic sexual experiences over the phone tend to come up with scenarios that could happen in real life. In addition to brainstorming what you want in advance, also take some time to think about your boundaries, limits, and if there are any words you would prefer not to be used in the phone sex chat itself. After coming up with a few potential scenarios, you are ready to communicate these to another person smoothly.
Choose Your Phone Sex Space
Choosing your phone sex space is an important part of the process. If you have a phone sex session that is going to take place on the bed, being on a bed is a wonderful spot in terms of adding to the realism. You can describe the scene around you and be in that space. If you keep some sex toys in the nightstand, let the other person knows that you’re pulling it out from there when the time comes. There are many other places in a person’s home to have phone sex, including in the bathroom, the kitchen, the living room, and more. Some people have fantasies about having sex on a staircase, as there are many hot scenes in movies where this happens. Choosing your phone sex space can also mean going to a hotel or another location if that is where the scenes are. That said, for places that are more high-risk, you likely do not want to be physically there. Choose a safe and secure place to have your phone sex fun.
Dress The Part
Depending on the type of roleplay you are doing, there may be a foreplay/build-up session before the sexual part begins. If you are, in your roleplay, meeting up in a restaurant that is particularly fancy, putting out some dress clothing such as a suit or a nice dress can add to the realism, even if you are hanging out at home. It can be easier to describe and imagine a situation if you are taking off your suit jacket, or they are. Phone chat hotlines allow for a lot of imagination, though tangible props and other things can have an impact. If the other person is actually wearing high heel shoes and is taking them off as they are catering to your foot fetish, it can be made more tangible. Sissification is another example where props and clothing can play a fantastic role in the XXX fun. If you are a male looking to do sissification, you may decide to buy some panties or bras and potentially pick up some makeup.
Use Regularly Used Words
Phone sex is about language, and some words are better than others when it comes to describing parts of the body and more. While a term like ‘tiddle stick’ might mean cock, it is not a word that would likely be used in most sexual scenarios. Stick with the large variety of words that can be used in a specific situation, including descriptive action words. Unless your specific phone sex session is focused on situations where more unique and ‘out there’ words would be used, set them aside. People don’t use the word boinking much, and it can pull some people out of their mind space since they know it is not a word that would actually be used in the situation. These are all things to consider.
Let Your Natural Sounds Come Out
Let your natural sounds come out when you are masturbating. If you moan softly or lightly, get close to the phone and let the other person hear. If you tend to masturbate more vigorously, and the sounds of you stroking your dick come through the phone, don’t worry so much about softening it unless the other person can’t hear what you’re saying. That said, your natural sounds can be louder when it comes to phone sex. Many people are taught to be quiet when it comes to sex, though being louder has its benefits both as a person listening and the person feeling with pleasure. Your natural sounds can change and evolve over time, so if you want to experiment with different ways to communicate your pleasure to other people, phone sex hotlines are an excellent place to do it.
Communicate Well
If there are certain words that you would like to avoid, make sure to communicate them with the other person. This generally comes after communicating general scenes that you are interested in doing. If you are not all about anal sex, let the other person know that as well. Having an idea of what would realistically happen in a sexual experience translates well to creating a believable and more realistic phone sex chat session. There are hundreds of hot options, and with the diverse selection of beautiful people here, finding an ideal sexual partner who will help you fulfill your fantasies is a straightforward process. Use your voice greeting to provide a fantastic first impression, setting the tone for an excellent chat and letting the other person know, in general terms, what you are looking for. Communication starts with this first impression and continues through the phone sex chat session. Unsure of what you are looking for specifically? There are plenty of people who love to take control in these chats. With many creative minds, horny people, and people looking to communicate with others in general conversation, this is the top spot to get it on with phone sex. Enjoy.